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11-8-07
Random
Thoughts
The following are simply some short
suggestions for students from me, gathered over the past 18+ years
I’ve worked with college students.
- Buy an umbrella, a big one. While
it’s not cool in high school to carry one, it’s not cool
in college to get drenched in the rainstorm and drip on
the cute guy/girl next to you in class. Golf umbrellas
are the best, or you can get the ones that reduce down
to the size of a pencil. Some even have college logos on
them and are pretty cool.
- Send a letter home. If you want to
make big points with your family, especially mom, send a
letter home. I can assure you it will be kept forever.
You don’t have to say anything important, just let them
know what you’ve been doing, how your classes are, and
of course, how much you miss them.
- Ask questions (especially you
guys). You are probably used to knowing the answers to
most questions about your immediate environment. When
you go to college that will not be the case, no matter
how familiar you are with the college. Don't be too
proud to ask questions or ask for help when you need it.
Everyone needs help sometime, and you can be the expert
later. For now just ask and get your questions
answered. In my experience, women are more likely to ask
questions than men, and guys also seem to dig deeper
holes for themselves. Sexist, maybe, but also pretty
accurate.
- Although school is important, make
sure you get out and have some fun! Take study breaks,
watch the latest movie with a friend, or get a group
together! Don't keep your nose in the books for the
entire four (or more) years.
- Go to the doctor when you’re
sick. Don’t infect everyone around you. And they have
this cool new thing they just invented, called
medicine…it makes you better! Guys, I’m talking to you
again!
- Make sure the people whose advice
you choose to follow are actually the ones who have a
clue what they’re talking about. One of my favorite
professors used to talk about the guy down at the end of
the bar being full of advice, but NOT being someone to
listen to.
- If you start having trouble in a
class or get behind, whatever you do, don’t do nothing!
If you do nothing, things will almost assuredly get
worse, not better. Go talk to your professor or a GA/TA
for the class, or your advisor, and ask for help, seek
out a tutor, etc. You might be surprised how many
options you have to “fix” things.
- If you have a learning disability,
don’t be too proud to register with the Disabled Student
Services office at your college (I’d also seriously
consider letting your academic advisor know). You don’t
have to share that information with anybody you don’t
want to, or even have anything communicated to your
professors if you don’t want. But you definitely don’t
want to have to start from scratch with the paperwork in
the middle of a semester if you start to have difficulty
because of your disability. You may never need any
additional assistance, but it’s best to be prepared,
just in case.
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