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College Q and A
Freshman Orientation class is offered at my school, but it isn’t
required. Since it may not count toward my degree, should I still
take it?
Yes you should take it. It is widely agreed by
professionals who work with college students that freshman
orientation courses help students be more successful in college.
For that reason alone, you should take it. You will most likely do
some or all of the following in an orientation class; learn how
your new campus ‘does things’, find out about important resources on
campus and where they are available, discuss time and stress
management, interact regularly with a college employee who can be a
resource to you throughout college, and meet other students (maybe
in your major).
Based on the research of a couple of men named
Vincent Tinto and Alexander Astin (among others), colleges do what’s
called “frontloading” resources for new students (making them
available to you when you first get to school and during the first
year). In my opinion, freshman orientation class is one of the best
means of delivering those resources. Take the class, and have them
contact me if someone doesn’t think you should.
I’m
still undecided between two or three colleges and I just received a
scholarship offer from one of them? Is it wrong to accept the
scholarship if I’m not certain I’m going to school there?
No, it’s not! It may not serve that
institution very well if you end up going to school somewhere else,
but that’s not your concern. Until and unless you decide NOT to go
to a particular school, you should accept any financial offer they
make you. I don’t mean to suggest you be dishonest at all, and you
are very unlikely to receive offers of federal financial aid from
more than one school – either way, DON’T accept more than one of
those! But you did the hard work to earn the scholarships, right?
And you want the money if you go to that school, right? Then let
the college worry about finding somebody else to use the scholarship
at the last minute, if you cancel out on them. It’s not like there
aren’t dozens of people who would gladly accept the money at the
last minute, if offered… But you MUST notify the college(s) you
don’t choose, AS SOON AS you make a decision – REALLY, as soon as
you make a decision! Otherwise you’re not being honest.
Are
fraternities and sororities really just for the rich, snobby kids?
It seems like joining one might be kinda fun…
No. And the Greek system (as we like to call
it) isn’t really that interested in the snobs either.
My experience with the Greek system includes a
wide variety of family income levels, GPA’s, interests, attitudes,
and academic abilities – everywhere on the spectrum, actually.
People more often choose to “go Greek” for the leadership
opportunities, sports, social activities or friendship than they do
for status. It’s not for everyone, though.
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